The person I would like to meet is someone wide open to new ideas and experiences; who enjoys social and personal time; has a mature approach to life without taking themselves or the small things too seriously; is probably successful in their chosen field and so has a good sense of self and is confident in themselves; they probably have had some tough patches in their lives but it's made them stronger and more appreciative of the 'good people'; they enjoy the good things in life without being shallow; enjoy educating themselves, traveling and meeting new people; they don't believe in boundaries or borders and have sound basic values of integrity, reciprocity and are still able to put it out there even if they've experience set backs or rejection in the past; so resilience is important as is a sense of humor. Physically, I just ask that they are in reasonably good shape for their age and have an eye to healthy living without making it a form of religion and know when to splurge and when to be self-controlled. I like to see people who have had the range of life experiences appropriate to their age, have learnt their lessons and come to terms with their short comings and how to make life work for them and those they interact with.